My man is not sexually adventurous w/me, but I found LOADS of kinky sex toys at his house- why not with me? I've been with a great guy for 6 months... We have lots of fun together, and he treats me GREAT. Our sex life has been good, but not very adventurous. While cleaning his house, I just found lots of kinky sex toys, vibes, bondage stuff, sex board games, sexy womens outfits in little sizes, you name it! He's never explored these things with me! I need to lose about 25 lbs.. do you think he's just not as attracted to me? We live 5 hours apart & see each other every weekend. We take turns driving. He calls me 3 to 4 times every day and acts like he's crazy in love with me, though he hasn't said it yet. I'm hurt by this other side of him he's kept from me... I want him to be more sexually open with me... why isn't he? |
Perhaps he loves you, and thinks that all that "sick stuff" was for, well, women about whom he didn't really care.
If that's the case, there are ways to make him see that "love" and "dirty hot sex" are both okay with you. I'm sure you can figure out a few. <g>
But the best thing to do would be to ask him if maybe someday you could "play with some of your toys."
Just be sure you are willing to hear the answers if some of the things he enjoys seem bad or yuccky to you. If he's got bondage stuff, he may enjoy a great deal more than just a little tying up. Some of it may be well outside the "norm." Nothing will send him running faster than being called a sicko!
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Fellow blacks, when you see handcuffs in them kinky sex toy stores do you reminisce about yo first arrest? I can still remember when I 1st got arrested at 15 for selling some crack to my homeboys in harlem. Holla! |
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Whats the weirdest thing you have ever done when having sex? tings like kinky things and toys...? Just want to find out what people have done, because Im never sure how innocent I am. |
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Kinky sex ideas, anyone? (:? okay i love having sex with my boyfriend its great. but its kind of same old if you know what i mean. i might tell him that i wanna try kinky sex just to make it different/more exciting.
any suggestions? anything apart from leather, whips, handcuffs - i dont really like that.
i know he wants to do roleplays, well hes spoke before where i'd dress up as his favourite celebrity - him as mine.
what else can we do?
oooh & not sex toys.. we dont really wanna use them - spoken about them before xooxoxox
i also think he wanted to buy me lingerine from anne summers for my bday. he particularly liked this black corset. but what kind of things can we do? |
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Do men like sex toys? I have been with my fella for 6 months and he is open mided sexually, I was thinking of buying some sex toys, nothing kinky just vibrators and some hand cuffs and things to use on me not him!, do you think he might be put off, do men generally like that kind of thing? |
Some guys like sex toys, and some don't. But it probably can't hurt to try!
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Who buys sex toys: girls or guys? Now to add a little spice to the question... who buys the kinky heavy-duty sex toys, like penetration machines, suspension frames, or bondage gear? |
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What are the best sex toys out there these days? I am meeting up with a hot whippersnapper tonight, and he said he's kinky. What will be best? |
Hands down the We Vibe 2 - the couples Vibrator. Don't be selfish share the love. Get something both parties can enjoy!!
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The We Vibe 2 - The Couple Vibrator is small enough to be worn while making love and it is the only hands free clitoral vibe with no straps, panties, wires or rings to get in the way. The We Vibe 2 is form fitting and comfortable vibe is made from medical grade silicone and is rechargeable and completely waterproof. The We Vibe 2 massager is about 10 times more powerful than a typical bullet and it has no batteries to fuss with. The We-Vibe 2 has 2 speeds to satisfy - low speed offers throbbing that gives you the rumble of a large toy and high speed is the ideal climactic stimulation. Just a single charge will give you two hours of fun. The The We Vibe 2 weighs about 2 ounces and has a usable length of 3.25 inches. |
Sex toys - the best ones? hi, me and my wife have been looking at sex toys at www.kinky-bits.com we have never used them before and have no idea what are the best types and what ones to look at for beginners. Can anyone help? |
Dildos and Dongs
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While these toys are great for play, they don't provide any clitoral stimulation. With that being said I would definitely recommend these items for couples looking for a little adventure in the bed room. They can fill you out while your lover provides the rest. Dildos and dongs are pretty basic, you just need to find out what best fits you. Do you like the them big, medium, or small? Do you like g-spot stimulation? Do you like them realistic? These are some things to think about before buying a dildo or dong. When using a non vibrating dildo, I prefer one of the realistic porn star cocks such as the Tommy Blade Dildo.
Bullets and Eggs
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These fascinating items will bring you to a gushing orgasm each and every time. Bullets and eggs can be used for both internal use and clitoral stimulation. These are normally egg or oval shape and provide intense vibrating power similar to a vibrator but smaller in size. These items are also good for shower pals (make sure your bullet vibrator is waterproof first). I would recommend buying one that's rechargeable, because if your anything like me its very handy. Being able to recharge also saves on the cost of batteries.
Butterflies
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Clitoral stimulation, anal and/or vaginal penetration, and a built in harness to hold everything in place. Butterflies are very fun and bring a whole new experience to any relationship. These can be worn during intercourse which provide a hands free clitoral stimulation experience. Some can also provide anal stimulation for a trifecta of pleasure.
Vibrators
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The king of sex toys for women by far. Highest recommendations by 90% of women. These sex toys can provide clitoral stimulation and deep penetration all at the same time, depending on the type of vibrator. Some vibrators are just plain straight while others are referred to as rabbit vibrators. Rabbit vibrators can also provide clitoral stimulation, if you have one of these around there is no need for anything else!! As for vibrators you will find there are so many to choose from. Take your time and choose carefully. Spend the extra money and it will last longer, I guarantee it. The Lelo line is reliable and very stylish. |
I have a lot of sex questions? Does it hurt?
^^^Im a girl/a virgin?^^^
Sex shops---Kinky toys hot or not?
What can i do to make it hurt less?
How much will i bleed?
Sex toys? What point do they have?
How long does it hurt?
What can i do to make it fun for the guy?
Lingerie? Hot or not?
What does an orgasm feel like? |
Yes it will hurt the first time...and maybe the second...and third
Sex shops and kinky toys - depends on the person - it's nice to experiment tho
Use lubricant - but it's still going to hurt - your hymen is being ripped...no pain no gain.
Some girls don't bleed and it's only a small amount if so.
Sex toys - Good for singles
The first few times until you can accommodate the DICK!! hello.
Screw the guy. Excuse the pun...just save the experimenting until after you're used to it.
Lingerie - best thing in the world.
An orgasm - indescribable pleasure. |