Is it possible to find if someone is an anal virgin? Is there a test for anal virginity in men and women alike? Is it possible to find if someone is physically an anal virgin, wheter inserted an object or a penis. If so, can anyone please tell me how? |
No there is no way of testing.
Although its fairly obvious if someone has had a lot of activity through the back door as it is looser and quicker to relax. |
How do I tell my girlfriend that I'm not an anal virgin? She doesn't know my past of sleeping with guys... Ive been really horny for anal. Do you think she would give me some? (strapon for her) |
| How about you just ask her? |
Are you considered a virgin if you had anal sex? My friend and I have this debate and webster's defines a virgin as someone who has not had sexual intercourse. Anal sex to me is sexual intercourse. He says no. Who is right? |
| Virginity generally refers to having had a male organ inside your vaginal passage. Technically neither oral or anal sex make you any less a virgin. In fact the term used for people who have had anal and not vaginal is "technical virgin" . This allude to the technical fact of no vaginal intercourse but also notes that the person while a technical virgin is not very virginal. |
Can u get STD from Anal sex a virgin? Ok we are both virgins we had never been involved in nay kind of sex. But we plan of having Anal sex, and i wonder if i can get STD or any other kind of bacteria from making love to a virgin with no protection. AND yes she is a virgin 100% and so am i. We both clean in blood, have no sickness in body. |
| if she has no STD's then it is very very unlikely, in fact almost impossible... but if your having sex with a girl then you should have vaginal sex, then there is for sure no chance at all of getting any STD's. |
I'm an anal sex virgin, and am wondering if i should change that? I have become more and more interested in experimenting with anal sex, but I've heard a lot of girl (and guy) talk that has somewhat turned me off to it. I was wondering if someone could either list first time worries and or suggestions? Maybe a website? Anything would be extremely helpful! |
Anal sex can be a truly amazing experience for women. Some of the most powerful and long lasting orgasms my wife has ever had are from anal sex.
Obviously, anal sex isn't for everybody. Not everyone likes it. And even some people that would probably like it don't go about it the right way and end up being turned off by it for life. So you are in the unique position of having the desire/interest in doing it. So I feel very confident that you can end up getting immense enjoyment from anal sex.
In simple terms, anal sex is a process.
Here are a few important ground rules.
1. Always use lube. In my opinion, Astroglide is by far the best, but you may already have a favorite. This rule goes for any time anything comes into contact with your anus.
2. Relax. This is a mental exercise for you. You just can't enjoy anal sex if you aren't relaxed. And this doesn't just refer to the penetration part of it. Make sure you and your partner are on the same page and that they know what your limits are. That way you won't be tense about what they may try on you.
3. Arousal. Don't bother messing with anal sex if you are not aroused. Be turned on. Be as horny as possible. If you are just having a quickie or whatever, leave the anal sex homework for another time.
4. Focus. As you start to explore anal sex make sure that your sexual routine isn't "interrupted" or "taken over" by anal sex, but instead is "enhanced" by anal sex. Think of anal sex as a spice, not as a main course. Also remember that for most women that enjoy anal sex, clitoral or vaginal stimulation goes hand in hand. Even for my wife, who loves anal sex, only very rarely does she have an "anal only" orgasm. And most women probably never do.
Where to start:
If you haven't already, start incorporating your anus into your sexual routine with your partner. If you are not sure what this would be, here are a few suggestions. Anal caressing without penetration. This is where you or your partner caresses your anus with their fingers. This will be more enjoyable for you with lube, even though there is no penetration. The lube will add a lot of sensation to the caressing. Your partner can also try licking your anus if you feel ready for it. You can also try a vibrating device on your anus without any penetration. Remember, first learn to love having your anus stimulated without penetration.
The next step is an important one. Try your best to incorporate anal stimulation into your orgasm. The best way to do this is through oral sex. Have your partner bring you to orgasm with oral sex. While they are doing this make sure they are stimulating your anus, again, without penetration. As your partner gets better at this they can use a couple fingers to firmly press on your anal opening, without penetrating, with the same rhythm of your orgasm.
When you are ready to explore and experiment with penetration make sure you are very aroused and open to it. Don't think that you are ready for it because you have had your anus stimulated on several occasions. You are only ready if you FEEL ready and "in the mood" for anal penetration.
Penetration. Everyone gets this point at their own pace. Sometimes women feel ready right away and they are aroused and relaxed enough to go there. Others take several weeks or even months to work up to it. Start slow. Use more lube that you think you need. Have your partner start with one finger, well manicured, and only go in part way and then hold it there. Don't just start pumping away. Or use a small *********. Nothing bumpy or curvy, just smooth. If you start with one of these remember not to just stick it in all the way. Go slow, put it in part way and then hold it. Let your muscles relax and let your mind accept it as well. A ********* is a great tool, because you can become very aroused during foreplay (which should include some anal stimulation) and then insert a *********. Once it's in just leave it there and continue with your routine.
Once you are at this point just progress naturally and use your own judgment about what you like and be happy with where you end up. Maybe you work your way up to it, loving it the whole time, but when you actually have a full anal sex it just isn't for you. That's fine, just stick with the stuff you love. Also remember that even though you may love anal sex that doesn't mean you will love it every time.
Some thoughts about the "nitty-gritty"
So, what about poop? In short, you don't have to worry about this at all. You anal canal is not full of poop. The lining of the rectum is very smooth and is designed to let poop out. So people (normally) don't have stray poop hanging out in there rectum. My experience has been that my wife usually prefers to shower before engaging in anal sex, but not always. So this is up to you. Your partner doesn't have to worry about having anal sex with you and ending up with |
If i have oral or anal sex am i a virgin still? I'm 15 but wanna have sex but keep my virginity if I do anal or oral with my gf am I still a virgin? |
Technically, yes.
Have fun. Lots of fun.
Sin |
Is a girl still a virgin if she has had only anal/oral? I always wondered. If a girl has NEVER had vaginal sex but only anal or oral, does that mean she is no longer a virgin? Or in other words, chaste? I know hymen doesnt determine virginity, but vaginal sex does right? |
| In my opinion, anyone who has had a sexual encounter, even if it did not involve intercourse, is not a virgin any more. This applies to men and women. |
When you have anal sex are you still considered a virgin? i am a virgin and i was told that by having anal sex i would still be considered a virgin since there was no vaginal penetration . |
Girls who have anal but not vaginal sex are considered technical virgins. That said you are still sexually active even if you are not having vaginal sex and while technically a virgin you would not remain very virginal in regards to lack of experience in sex.
All things considered anal sex is an alternative used by many women, However, I caution you that it require some special skills on the guys side to make this enjoyable for the women receiving it. You can email me if you wish and I can provide you details on how NOT to get hurt doing this. |
Are you considered a virgin if you had anal sex? i was talking to my boyfriend when we first met ( we weren't together yet) and he told me that he had anal sex with a girl. they were both virgins, and then they did that. are they still considered virgins? im freaking out cause im afraid that he is not and i am and we have been together for a awhile now. please help. i want opinions, definitions and conforming words! help! |
| Sexual intercourse involves the penetration of the vagina by the penis or by intercourse (as anal or oral intercourse) that does not involve penetration of the vagina by the penis. Therefore they are not virgins! |
If you've had anal sex but never had vaginal penetration are you still technically a virgin? I had anal sex with my ex boyfriend a while ago when we were together, but have never had vaginal intercourse. Am I still technically a virgin? |
| Yes. I purposely had only anal sex with guys at first just for that reason. I still often do it that way to make sure that I don't get pregnant. |